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Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Just wanna see you happy~


I’ve been holding every breathing and
it’s all I can do
Haging on every word and
Just like a fool, I thought I could get over you

So Call me, when you fall in love
So I can get on with my life
Call me, when you find the one
I’ve been thinking what I was all this time
When you fall in love
Call me

Taking the long away hope and
When I get home
It’s all just been a bad dream
Then I’m not alone
And you aren’t gone and move on

So Call me, when you fall in love
So I can get on with my life
Call me, when you find the one
I’ve been thinking what I was all this time
When you fall in love
Call me

Even know I know its wrong
The holding to this holding on
Its coping, what could it be?
I know the truth, and know it hurts
And now I know its not the worst
Letting go it’s not give in

So Call me, when you fall in love
So I can get on with my life
So call me, when you find the one
I’ve been thinking what I was all this time
When you fall in love
Call Me

Sunday, August 7, 2011

All about Capricorn~

Writing is easy. Anyone can do it. All you have to do is … Okay, I’m lying. But there are people who think like that. Those who don’t write, usually. They could write a book … they were always good at school essays … it’s just that they’ve always been too busy with important things. But if they had the time they could knock it off in no time at all. 

Anyway, I am just thinking what should I be writing this time round. And yet I come to my senses to share what I have learned most for the past year. To most who really in to star signs and zodiac, I am a capricorn~ What can you tell from a capricorn? I am here to share most of my experience. 

What you really hear and listen most of the time are just good and beauty part of a capri. But I were to share with you the darkest part of this particular star sign.

Yes I do not deny at all we are the sign of love. Unimaginably would love one more than expectation. A sign that also manipulates into temptation, lust and much more~

Let me share a little thing about the Capris aka Seagoat~ Planet of saturn~Saturn is associated with Death and the Reaper, the skeleton in black hood with a scythe who reaps men and women when their time is up.What do you know about the goat now?

The sign Capricorn is one of the most stable and (mostly) serious of the zodiacal types. These independent, rocklike characters have many sterling qualities. They are normally confident, strong willed and calm. These hardworking, unemotional, shrewd, practical, responsible, persevering, and cautious to the extreme persons, are capable of persisting for as long as is necessary to accomplish a goal they have set for themselves. Capricorn are reliable workers in almost any profession they undertake. They are the major finishers of most projects started by the 'pioneering' signs; with firm stick-to-it-ness they quickly become the backbone of any company they work for. 
Yes this part is what we know about the goat. What about the dark side that was never known
? Undeniably we are what stated above. But we are also those animals who can just do whatever it takes to gain power. We are as manipulative as the devil. We can put down pride, dignity and even morals just to get where we want. I myself made my superior got fired when I was still working for a company. I am not proud of what I have done. Because in the end, I felt miserable. Even this dark trait that we have. There will come to a point where our core lies. We are very confused sign. Half a goat and half a fish, always struggling, contemplating, fickle-minded, and also contradicting ourself every moment in life. Even we deny it all the time but we are this way. It's just a matter of choices~



Capricorn make of themselves, resourceful, determined managers; setting high standards for themselves and others. They strive always for honesty in their criticism of self, they respect discipline from above and demand it from those beneath them. In their methodical, tough, stubborn, unyielding way, they persist against personal hardship, putting their families and/or their work before their own needs and welfare to reach their objectives long after others have given up and fallen by the wayside. In fact when practical ability allied with the drive of ambition are required in employees to make a project succeed, Capricorn are the people to hire. They plan carefully to fulfill their ambitions (which often include becoming wealthy), they are economical without meanness, and able to achieve great results with minimum effort and expense. Because of their organizing ability they are able to work on several projects simultaneously.
We are also those who have unreasonable goals in life (to many at least). Many may think we are crazy and yet unrealistic. But the fact of our determination and stubbornness in life, to us is just how bad you want something. The fact is many people think that we are meant to be in this world for what others want us to be. But are we??? NO!!!!! We are meant to make our life what we want it to be. We are dreamers and yet a realist. We dare to dream and yet dare to make the dream real. There is no such things as “IMPOSSIBLE” to the goat. What we only see is “I-M-POSSIBLE” That is also why we don't really have much friends around us. But those we can call friends are those who can understand us and know what we are capable of. Those people we really appreciate and those are the only ones that we would put our needs behind them. They are our source that makes us wanna keep living. Life to us means too much than just a life a human live in. We compose our own pictures, we create our own life. 

They have a great respect for authority but may not, if they reach high rank, be willing to listen to other opinions on things they are directly responsible for. As the ranking authority figure in a given situation they expect their underlings to be as self disciplined as they themselves are, and to perform every task undertaken to the highest standard. They are, nevertheless, fair as well as demanding. Among their equals they are not always the most pleasant of work fellows for they are reserved and too conservative, valuing tradition more than innovation, however valuable the latter, and they are often humorless. There is also a tendency to pessimism, melancholy and even unhappiness which many Capricorn are unable to keep to themselves, especially if they fail personally. In the extreme this trait can make them a very depressed individual; ecstatic happiness alternating with the most wretched kind of misery which is so subconsciously buried that he or she should seek help if such emotions become frequent. For the above reason, capable Capricorn should spend many hours in meditation, gathering the strength to control such inner emotions.



But how many of them would stand up and admit that these is true?
I would say not many. We are also very proud animals. We will never show our weakness. Why? Link back to what I shared earlier. We believe in the cycle or what is better known as Karma. We know that we are not irreplaceable and everything has a higher power. But facts are that we do have a very good pokerface~ The only downfall of a capricorn is when they get over-confident and we start to fail. Once failed, it takes ages to heal. Longer than what others may take. This may not be understood by many as we cling to what makes us to be. (As mention earlier, we are contradictory animals.) This applies in every aspects in life. Like I say, we are simple yet most complicated at all times~

The swings in mood are not the only reason some Capricorns deserve the adjective based on their name - capricious. They can be surprisingly and suddenly witty and subtle for the quiet, reserved individuals they seem to be, and they also have a tendency to ruin things by unexpected and utterly irresponsible bouts of flippancy. In certain individuals in whom the characteristic is strong, the temptation to do this has to be resisted with iron self-control. Another unexpected quality in some Capricorn is an interest in the occult which persists in spite of their naturally skeptical turn of mind.
Their intellects are sometimes very subtle. They think profoundly and deeply, throughly exploring all possibilities before deciding on a 'safe' alternative. They have good memories and an insatiable yet methodical desire for knowledge. They are rational, logical and clearheaded, have good concentration, delight in debate in which they can show off their cleverness by luring their adversaries into traps and confounding them with logic.
In their personal relationships they are often ill-at-ease, if not downright unhappy. They are somewhat self-centered but not excessively so, wary and cautious around people they do not know very well, preferring not to meddle with others and in turn not to allow interference with themselves, thus they tend to attract people who do not understand them. Casual acquaintances they will treat with diplomacy, tact and, above all, reticence. They make few good friends but are intensely loyal to those they do make, and they can become bitter, and powerful enemies. They sometimes dislike the opposite sex and test the waters of affection gingerly before judging the temperature right for marriage. Once married, however, they are faithful, though inclined to jealousy. Most Capricorns marry for life. But a word of cautions, Capri are very insecure when it comes to love. 

In sex, we are like an ultimatum. Desires and cravings. But yet being controlled. If being roam freely, you wouldn't imagine how a Capricorn can go. They are always testing the waters. Trying out new things. The crazy desire for sex are beyond words to describe. But yet when comes with emotions. We may go for months or longer without cravings. Drugs, sex, anything that you may link to the evilness in the world. We are always the first to test it out. It is just a conflicting and tiring world to live in to many.  But we are just the ones who will dare to live in these kinda world.  
  Their occupations can include most professions that have to do with math or money and they are strongly attracted to music. They can be economists, financiers, bankers, speculators, contractors, managers and real estate brokers. They excel as bureaucrats, especially where projects demanding long-term planning and working are concerned, and their skill in debate and love of dialectic make them good politicians. They are excellent teachers, especially as principals of educational establishments where they have the authority to manage and organize without too much intimacy with the staff members. If working with their hands, they can become practical scientists, engineers, farmers and builders. The wit and flippancy which is characteristic of certain Capricornians may make some turn to entertainment as a career.




Saturday, August 6, 2011

Skyscraper

Skies are crying
I am watching
Catching teardrops in my hands
Only silence as it's ending, like we never had a chance
Do you have to, make me feel like there is nothing left of me?

You can take everything I have
You can break everything I am
Like i'm made of glass
Like i'm made of paper
Go on and try to tear me down
I will be rising from the ground
Like a skyscraper!

As the smoke clears
I awaken, and untangle you from me
Would it make you, feel better to watch me while I bleed?
All my windows, still are broken
But I'm standing on my feet

You can take everything I have
You can break everything I am
Like I'm made of glass
Like I'm made of paper
Go on and try to tear me down
I will be rising from the ground
Like a skyscraper!
Like a skyscraper!

Go run, run, run
I'm gonna stay right here
Watch you disappear, yeah
Go run, run, run
Yeah it's a long way down
But I am closer to the clouds up here

You can take everything I have
You can break everything I am
Like I'm made of glass
Like I'm made of paper, Oh
Go on and try to tear me down
I will be rising from the ground

Like a skyscraper!

Friday, August 5, 2011

不是路已走到了盡頭,而是該轉彎了


不是路已走到了盡頭,而是該轉彎了,這句話很有意思,讓人看了會
​有許許多多的感慨。     當你遇到一件事情,已無法解決,甚至是已經影響到你的生活、心情​時,何不停下腳步,給心靈一個休息的時間。或許換種方法,或許換​種角度,或許換條路來走事情便會簡單了許多,“如果我們走的太快​,要停一停等候靈魂跟上來”。據說這是印第安人的一句名言。   只是不要讓自己一直的陷在痛苦的深淵中,生命中總有挫折,那不是​盡頭,只是在提醒你,該轉彎了! 學會放棄,將昨天埋在心底,留下最美的回憶,放手並不代表你的失​敗,放手只是讓你再找條更美...好的路走!   其實人生很多時候需要自覺的放棄!當一切都已成為過往雲煙,放棄​已經是最好的詮釋,也就是一種最好的幸福。放棄了恨,留下的就是​愛,在落淚以前轉身離去,留下華麗的背影,讓心靈的負荷輕鬆而靈​動,心中留下的應該是那種淡然,當時間靜悄悄的滑過,那一種感覺​,已經隨著時間而慢慢走遠,心中唯存一種叫愛的東西。   有位禪師曾經說過:人生只有三天——昨天,今天和明天。活在昨天​的人迷惑,活在明天的人等待,只有活在今天的人最踏實。   執著是一種負擔,甚至是一種苦楚,計較的太多就成了一種羈絆,迷​失的太久便成了一種痛苦。放棄是一種胸懷,是一種成熟,是對自我​內心的一種自信和把握。放棄,不是放棄追求,而是讓人以豁達的心​態去面對生活。   人生中,得與失,也發生在一念間。到底要得到什麼?到底要失去什​麼?見仁見智。人生苦短,我們只是世界的匆匆過客,其實在這個看​似短暫的人生旅途中,得到一點什麼,失去了一點什麼,又何仿呢?​得不到和已經失去固然珍貴,但這並不是最珍貴的,人間最珍貴的應​該是把握好現在你手中的幸福,好好的珍惜眼前人!   隨著年齡的增長,閱歷的充實,人應該隨著時間調整自己的生命點。​失去是一種痛苦,也是一種幸福。如何面對人生中的得與失,這恐怕​是千百年來許多人苦苦思索的。該得到的不要錯過,該失去的,灑脫​得放棄,不必太在意,擁有時珍惜,失去後不說遺憾;過多的在乎將​人生的樂趣減半,看淡了一切也就多了生命的釋然。   不是路已走到了盡頭,而是該轉彎了!  

Thursday, August 4, 2011

路沒有錯的,錯的只有選擇


我們不是聖人,所以常會走錯路,不是無奈,而是有些跤應該摔,有
​些事情,痛了,哭了,才會了解,才會從此不再犯錯。     誰知道走錯的也是路呢?走錯的路上就算滿是荊棘,但那確實也是一​條路。錯誤裡也會有機會,也會有峰迴路轉,但你一定要挺住,不要​輕易的倒在路上,進不得又退不了,讓錯誤一環套著一環。即使是在​一步錯誤裡,也要相信自己,還有最後的自由,就是選擇自己面對這​種錯誤的態度。   沒有什麼決定是可以兩全的,如果總是這樣,你永遠做不出什麼決定​。當你最終順了自己的心,而不是遵循生活的習慣,自己選擇了方向​與路途時,...你就不要抱怨。一個人只有承擔起旅途風雨,才能最終守得住彩虹滿​天。   你相信有走出來的風景嗎?在一條走錯的路上,別人都步履蹣跚,愁​眉不展,你卻依舊笑顏如花,坦然前行,久而久之,你就成了錯誤路​上的一道風景,亮麗了別人的眼睛,愉悅了自己的心。心不同了,路​也就不同了,陽光會明媚,傷痛也會遠離。     走錯也是路,因為是錯的,所以有更多的艱辛與痛楚,但你卻無畏的​走著,何其勇敢!只是,你總會堅強的走出去,進入另一片廣闊天地​。愛錯了也是愛,即使所有人都說那是錯愛,可你還是那麼的真誠與​熱烈,何其坦蕩!只是,總會優雅的轉身,帶著懂得的深刻成就另一​段相依。   原來,路,沒有錯的,錯的只是選擇。愛,沒有錯的,錯的只是緣分​。自己要相信,無論何地,一路風景總無限,無論何時,我們的年華​總會盛開,無論何時何地,我們的愛情總會永久。相信自己的心。

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

离别

如果有一段爱情能让你变得美丽,或是激起你某种潜能和动力,那么​,即使这段爱情没有结果,它也是美丽的,是值得你无怨无悔… 就像一朵花的开放,花也许知道,它开完以后就会凋落,它凋落后却​不一定有果,但它还是开了,开得那么灿烂,在它最美丽的时节
手,放开了才明白拥有时的珍贵
泪,落下了才知道心真的会很痛
心,碎了才了解爱情带来的苦涩
爱,走了才清楚被爱抛弃的痛楚

爱了、给了、散了、伤了、痛了
心碎了、落泪了、麻木了
幸福是什么?有人认为,
幸福就是有豪宅名车;幸福就是和自己心爱的人在一起;幸福就是天​天看到阳光;有些人认为活着就是一种最大的幸福。

【那你认为幸福是什么? 】
一种感觉总在失眠时,才承认是“相思”;
有一种缘分总在梦醒后,才相信是“永恒”;
有一种目光总在分手时,才看见是“眷恋”;
有一种心情总在离别后,才明白是“失落”。
有时候,爱情是寂寞的时候撒下的谎言。 我们往往会因为寂寞而寻找爱情。 爱情就成就了一场欺骗。 成了一句时间的谎言。   -    自己喜欢的人没有出现,出现的人自己不喜欢。 自己爱的人不爱自己,爱自己的人自己却不爱。 于是很多人爱着一个不爱自己的人或者跟一个不爱自己或自己不爱的
​人在一起。 一起用虚拟的爱情掩饰彼此内心真实的寂寞。...
 
开始讨厌自己,开始嘲笑自己,开始仇恨自己
我希望有人关心,有人保护,有人会记得每天告诉我晚安
我希望有人告诉我,有时候想念我令他难受。

我不演戏,我什么都相信。我说过的话都算数,
...所以,对我说过的,别忘记。请别忘记。

我喜欢被勇敢的你守护着,因为有你,所以我不需要勇敢

我会告诉你,我可以不勇敢吗。
那些勇敢的人都未必幸福,因为是不幸才让他们变得勇敢,坚强。
 
 
 
 

小时候

小时候、特天真,特容易满足!

永远不会有无聊的时候,总是有做不完的游戏,老鹰抓小鸡,警察抓小偷,跳皮筋,踢毽子,骑马打仗,弹溜溜蛋,砸磕的,丢沙包等等,玩一万遍都不会觉得烦,动画片看的是小蜜蜂、葫芦娃、变形金刚,电视剧看的是西游记、老版济公和聊斋!

幼儿园老师发的字母表还有铅笔盒上的乘法口诀都拼命的背着。
在学校最害怕老师,最害怕请家长,最害怕同学说“我告老师去!”

总不会觉得累,总觉得为老师跑腿特光荣,总喜欢在老师面前有所表现!
买新衣服了,觉得特骄傲,走路都觉得特气派!
考完试不敢把试卷拿回家,最怕让父母签字,然后偷偷当自己的家长!
在家家长说什么都不做,在学校里特勤快,不用老师交待,把一切都做好了!
用圆珠笔在手腕上画了个表,还有时间!
从来没用完过一块橡皮,要么是丢了,要么是拿小刀切成快了!
最喜欢过年,穿新衣服,满世界乱跑的玩,就是讨厌有一堆作业!
把课桌当宝,和同桌一尺一寸分,谁都不能过界..

小时候,一直以为泡面就是像包装纸上的图案一样,那么丰盛的,尤其是红烧牛肉面,我总当做面里是有牛肉的。长大了才发现上面写着,图片仅供参考!

小时候,一放学就要急着把作业做完,然后才玩,
长大后,作业一拖再拖,到最终还可能是别人那里弄来的东拼西凑的答案!

小时候,看会儿电视最多九点就睡觉了,
现在都要熬到个12点、1点的,对着电脑发呆却迟迟不肯睡觉!

小时候,写联系方式的时候,就是家里的电话,连最要好的几个朋友的电话都会背,
现在握着手机,存了那么多,能真正背出号码的又有几人?有时候自己换了个号码都背不出自己的!

小时候,总是希望早早到学校,后来就越拖越晚,甚至希望不要去学校了!
小时候,觉得老师那么神圣,老师的话比父母的话有用的多,现在对老师却有那么多的抱怨!
小时候,愿意有感情的朗读课文,现在课文连看都不想看了!

小时候,有个5块10块就觉得富裕的不得了,能买上各种不同的一大堆东西,大部分都是吃的,吃的里面还送小玩具的那种,1毛钱花哪里了都说的出来。
现在有再多也觉得钱不够用,吃的穿的玩的,有时候也不知道花在哪里!

小时候,我以为人与人之间,就是我跟你好和我不跟你好了,
结果现在才发现,有喜欢,忍耐,包容,感恩,甚至还有背叛!

小时候,笑着笑着都笑到肚子痛,长大了笑着笑着,怎么就笑出了眼泪!
...............

小时候啊,小时候,我们的小时候,好像一样,又好像都不太一样!
小时候啊,小时候,我还有那么多事都来不及记起,来不及诉说!
小时候啊,小时候,你还好吗?你在回忆里冷不冷、冷不冷!
小时候啊,小时候,我真的爱你, 这是成年的我, 你认得吗? 你对我满意吗?

我的小时候,请你告诉我要坚强,
我的小时候,我知道只有你没有受过伤,
所以只有你才会真正乐观的告诉我 世界可以很美好、而我可以很勇敢..

小时候啊小时候,我要走了,走到前面去了。
我会带一个大大的、温暖的、笑起来像风铃响一样的未来,来看你。
你等我~

World Championship of Marching Show Band 2011

World Championship Marching Show Bands 2011 is the biggest marching band championship in the world for year 2011. It will gather more than 30 bands from around the world in 8 days of competition, street parade and parties! Over 2900 band members will be in Kuala lumpur from the 23 to 31 July 2011. The participants numbers are larger than the Winter Olympics.

To organize in Malaysia a world class marching show band competition, adhering to world standards and sanctioned by the world body, World Association of Marching Show Bands.

WCMSB 2011 supports the development of a positive self-worth in every participant involved in the marching band fraternity - performers, teachers, parents and community - through this internationally-acclaimed event. WCMSB 2011 focuses on individual character building, self-discipline, leadership qualities and the fostering of a good value system.”


Sekolah Menengah Kebangsaan Sultanah Asma from Kedah has made Malaysia proud by emerging victorious in the World Championship Marching Show Bands 2011 tonight.
The school scored 94.2 points to defeat 15 schools and community teams in the grand final for the championship Saturday.
Champion Maker Of Malaysia~ Mr Tang Chia Hoe


The trophy was presented by the president and chief executive officer of World Association of Marching Show Bands International Robert Eklund.
Suphanburi Marching Band from Thailand won second place with 91.7 points while Chien Kuo High School Marching Band from Taiwan took third place with 90.6 points.
A total of 30 independent marching bands from around the world had competed in the championship that started on Monday at the Kuala Lumpur Football Stadium in Cheras.
The opening ceremony on Monday saw a street parade by all the participating bands, from Jalan Raja Chulan to Jalan Bukit Bintang

 The best part of the competition was I brought my best friend and his girlfriend who is also my best butts~ There was two AMAZING occasions.

First was
Just right after Sultanah Asma performance, She STOOD UP AND CLAP!!!!
(ALONE)

Second was
This phrase kept going on all night in the car~ "Why my school don't have marching band like this? - (in Mandarin)"
为什么我的学校没有的???


The Final results for the 2011 World Championship~
94.2 - Sultanah Asma, Malaysia (Gold with honours)

91.7 - Suphanburi Marching Band, Thailand (Gold with honours)
...
90.6 - Chein-Kuo High School Marching Band, Taiwan (Gold with honours)

90.1 - Marching Band Gita Surosowan, Indonesia (Gold with honours)

89.9 - Victoria Institution, Malaysia (Gold)
 This is the video of SMK Sultanah Asma SASBAND during the finals~

Monday, August 1, 2011

For Good

This song is something that meant something important in a part of my life that changed me~ I for now wanted to share this with the world~ Thank you to that person that changed me for good~ Thank you so much~ You have made me a different and grown person~ There is a part of this song that really made me realize what is in the past that made me grown~ Thanks for being in my life~ and the love we use to share~


I'm limited
Just look at me, I'm limited and look at you, you can do all I couldn't do, Glinda
Now it's up to you
for both of us
now it's up to you

I've heard it said
That people come into our lives for a reason Bringing something we must learn and we are led to those
Who help us most to grow if we let them
And we help them in return
Now I don't know if I believe that's true
But I know I'm who I am today because I knew
you...

Like a comet pulled from orbit as it passes the sun
Like a stream that meets a boulder halfway through the wood
Who can say if I've been changed for the better
But because I knew you, I have been changed for good


It well may be that we will never meet again in this lifetime
So let me say before we part
So much of me is what I have learned from you
You'll be with me, like a handprint on my heart
Now whatever way our stories may end
I know you have rewritten mine by being my friend...

Like a ship blown from its mooring by a wind off the sea
Like a seed dropped by a skybird in a distant wood
Who can say if I've been changed for the better
But because I knew you, I have been changed for good
Because I knew you...
I have been changed for good

And just to clear the air I ask forgiveness for what you blame me for...
Well I guess there is blame to share...
And none of it seems to matter anymore

Like a comet pulled from orbit as it passes the sun
Like a stream that meets a boulder halfway through the wood
Like a ship blown off its mooring by a wind off the sea
like a seed dropped by a skybird in the wood

Who's to say if I've been changed for the better?
Because I knew you
Because I knew you
I have been changed for good

Words of Encouragements by Friends and those that Cared~ Thank you~

Special thanks for those nice words that my friends had shared and encouragements.

It really meant a lot to me and really thank you for sharing! And now I wanna share it with the world~ You guys meant so much to me~

From Alexander Wong~ A very very fond friend of mine that I will always love and care~ Someone that I know I will always can count on in life~

**I always will my love. btw. I wanna share this with you.
this reminds me of you, and all the beautiful souls that have touched my heart

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths.

These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.
Alexander 


From Rainer Lim~ A beautiful free soul that reminds me how life can be beautiful~ And she is a soul mate to my best friend Danny~ Both sharing a love that reminds me so much of a past that makes me grow to become a man today~ I love you guys so much~
當對所有的事累的時候...
( 很棒的文章值得細細品味)
「飛人」麥克喬登退休了,成為震驚全球的新聞,
耐吉的股票大跌,NBA 的陣腳大亂,
許多球迷都掉下了眼淚。
喬登也濕了眼眶,
尤其是當他看到自己的23號球衣被高高掛起時,
更以手遮面。
但他還是堅持地退休了,理由很簡單--
「雖然我體力還很棒,但是我的心已經疲累不堪。」
想起一位大陸的跳水名將,從小接受國家的栽培,
在世界比賽裡摘冠,眼看未來五年、
十年,可能都是她的天下。
才二十歲,她卻說要退休了,理由跟喬登一樣-- 「我的心已累。」
大陸的溜冰名將陳露也是如此。
1995年,她拿下世界花式溜冰賽的冠軍,96年又拿下亞軍,
然後因為腿傷,成績一落千丈。
幸虧隔2年,在冬季奧運會上她又拿到了銅牌。
她高興極了,因為她早已打算在那次奧運之後轉為職業溜冰手。
那面銅牌,是她在體育界的謝幕之作。
至於那次的金牌得主,美國的李頻絲姬不也一樣嗎?
「我不要再參加這樣的比賽了,我要跟爸爸多聚聚,
溜了十幾年,比了十幾年,我累了。」
另一部戲的男主角,在外面偷情,
太太找到他,要他自己決定,
是選那個作攝影師的情婦,還是選娘家富有的妻子,
男人跟著老妻走了,只對情婦淡淡地說了一句話:
「我累了!」
人都會累,也都會喊累。
我的女兒,碰到學校功課多,前一天睡的晚,
當天下午又有才藝課的日子,總在晚飯後說她累了。
我自己,年輕時能下午文章、晚上畫畫,仍然精力充沛,
現在卻只要下午寫篇文章,晚上就要喊累。
我那91歲的老母,更常喊累,
說去公園走一下,就累。
說朋友都死了,好累。
說「活著,真累」!
常想,我女兒、我自己,與我的老母同樣說「我累了」,
其中卻有多大的不同?
孩子累,是身體累。
打個盹,喝瓶可樂,可能就不累了。
青年累,是工作壓力的累。
當工作完成,壓力解除,就不累了。
老年的累,是對人生的累
拖著一個「臭皮囊」,走過幾十年的歲月,
該看的都看了, 能玩的都玩了,
不再好奇、不再激情,
他們的那句「我累了」,是對生命失去了興趣。
人生的累,說不定也像旅行。
出發時興緻勃勃,一路有說有唱;
幾天趕場下來,開始有了疲態、有了病號,
遊覽車上就少了歌聲,多了鼾聲。
漸漸旅行要結束了。
翻開行程表,最後一天的節目是
「上飛機,回到美好的家。」
每個人都會興奮地說:「好極了!要回家了!」
可是往前想想;
如果那麼想家,當初何必花錢出去旅行?
往後想想;
如果只有回家好,為什麼待上一陣子,又會想出去走走?
人的一生,就是在醒與睡、累與不累之間。
也彷彿是機器,要不斷操作、不斷保養,
不斷生產,也不斷加油、不斷供電。
直到有一天,
把那電源拉下,不再推上去,人生就結束了。

記得有一次去看一位病危的老將軍。
「我沒病,也不會病死;如果我死了,是累死的。」
老人家在病床上沙啞著說:
「病死,多慘?我打了一輩子的勝仗,為什麼要在最後輸給病。
所以我是累死的,我只是累,累就要休息,
那不是被勒令從人生退休,那是我主動請辭啊!」
話說完,沒多久,他就死了。
喪禮上,沒人哭,大家都說他活的太累了,自己走的。
很欣賞這老將軍的哲學。
有一天,我走,
我也是因為累了,
寧願高高興興地回到我溫暖的天家。
我相信,在家待一陣子。
我又會心動、行動-參加另一個生命的旅程。
男朋友說:
我每天這麼辛苦的工作,為的還不是咱們的將來?
我每天的工作壓力已經這麼大了,
為什麼妳就不能多體諒我一點兒?
我也想多陪陪妳呀,可妳能不能也多想想咱們的未來呢?
女朋友心裡想,每天下班就是聽你抱怨公司的事情,
難得休假出去玩,還得分擔你對收假後未完成工作的憂慮,
眼前我都快忍不住想跟你提分手了,
你竟還在那兒大言不慚地同我談未來?
~取自生活周遭~

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努力找到自己生活上的平衡點,
輕鬆快活地過一輩子,
不只是一個夢想,也是對自己與人生的責任!
自己不幸福快樂,又怎麼能讓別人幸福快樂呢?
臉上沒有笑容、或者是滿嘴抱怨的人,
就算再怎麼犧牲付出,
真的能夠讓別人打從心裡頭幸福快樂嗎?
信都代表一份緣的傳遞.......看信是一種幸福、它代表你有空閒..     沒空看信也是一種幸福
它代表你有比看信更重要的事忙著..
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不要吝嗇,您也可以繼續分享給好友,請別忘我這一份喔 ~^^~
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希望我們都是用心的人,也是有心的人。

 

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Live to love and love to live. The motto that I held on my entire life. Just a regular guy who loves what I am passionate in life. A song writer and producer. Living life on the move. From Malaysia to The States, New Zealand to Singapore. With the companion of great people in life. In and out from the music industry. Taking everything one step at a time. 
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